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Do not be afraid of being single, but you can be happier than happy couples
don't expect others to make you happy. You are the only person who can make you happy in the end.
Take charge of your reality and give up all that envy! Stop worrying about everyone else around you getting into relationships, and thinking that you need to as well
Focus on becoming the best person you can be. Take classes, work out, grow a garden, do volunteer work, go to therapy, do whatever your heart desires. Remember that everything you do should be for you! High self confidence will attract more friends and maybe in the long run even a little romance.
Indulge yourself. Go out and get your nails done, have a spa day or get a massage. Just because you don't have someone to impress or please doesn't mean you should stop pleasing yourself.
Play the field. Go out and have fun. Go out to clubs with your friends. Dance and flirt with others if you like. Don't be afraid to give or take phone numbers, just realize that nothing may come of it.
Take up a new hobby
Take up a new hobby
Become an optimist.
Find the silver lining in everything throughout your day, and savor little pleasures.
- Don't sit around thinking what you don't have. Instead, be happy that you have friends, family, good health.
- Value the things that you have, such as your creativity, your intelligence, your friends or your pet(s) as well as your newly-found independence.
- Notice the support that you have by others and don't think it is just you against the world, your friends may be the ones that understand how you feel the most.
- Say to yourself you are worthy of being loved, particularly by yourself. Loving yourself is both accepting who you are now and knowing there are always things you can do to make you even more awesome than you are now. Truly loving yourself also means it is harder for others to hurt you. Rejection won't sting as much, after all they couldn't possibly love you more than you do.
- You don't need to fake and plaster on smiles all the time if you're not truly happy. Be yourself. If it's a recent break-up it's ok to be sad... but only for a period of time that's proportionate to the length/intensity of the ended relationship. Any longer, is just not being fair to yourself or others.
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